for the wedding the sooner the better (due to lack of money it seems far *sad*)
if you mean something we did together then...
I did a special dinner in her back porch. I fixed her porch with red curtains and tried to recreate the day I asked her to be my girlfriend; candles, cider (again no alcohol), red roses, and good Italian cuisine. It was nice to be outside with my love, ones again showing her that I still love her as much and even more than the beginning. It is very important for us to do things together to show our love for each other.
Your PERFECT Engagement
After starting this contest we both are more focused on planning our wedding. As we started this contest we had the plan to get married, but were still not engaged. On our 4 years and 6 months anniversary we were sitting in my living room
watching "The Notebook" movie. I had tears in eyes as I saw all the obsticles they had to overcome to be together. At the end the couple dies after a long life together. Dilmer was hugging me and told me, "Aurora wil you grow old with me?" I smiled and turned to look at him as I said, "Yes." He then said, "I dont think you realize what I'm asking you." With a puzzled and blank starr I looked at him and he said, "Will you marry me?" I was in shock and so excited at the same time. I started crying out of joy. I can't believe it, I'm finally engaged to the love of my life! I am so overwhelmed with happiness.
She's PERFECT because
She completes me...it may sound like a cliche but she is everything that I'm not. I find everything I want in her, and wouldn't change her for the world. There is just no way to describe what an amazing woman she is: she is strong, supportive, courageous, gorgeous, and well the list can go on forever. I can only say she is my lovely Queen that I love and adore.
He's PERFECT because
He is loving, caring, and he makes me laugh every day. I love how I fall everyday more and more in love with this woderful man. He is always there when I need him even in the worst situations. I cannot think of any other man being my perfect man. He is truly my prince charming.
Your dream for the PERFECT life together
We know that marriage takes a lot of commitment and work and we look forward to it. We want to live a happy long life together, with 2 children, and to never forget how much our love for each other is. Like the vows goes, “for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part."
Our perfect wedding colors will be
passion red (burgundish), silver, and white
The perfect wedding flowers will be
white flowers for bridesmaids
dark red for the bride
The perfect wedding music will be
peter gabriel- "The book of love"
lifehouse- "You and me"
Shania Twain- "Your still the one"
oldies
and anything fun to dance
Our first dance will be to
Kci and Jojo- "All my life"
This was the first song that played as he asked me out and so far we have been together for over 4 years so it can be our good start for a lifetime together too.
The guest most likely to cry:
Dilmer: Her mother...or me saying "finally" :>
Aurora: My mother of course
The guest most likely to embarrass themselves
Dilmer: Her mother...dancing with all the young guys *wink*
Aurora: My mother playfully flirting with all the available bachelors!
Recently I was tested for cancer and the results came out to be abnormal with a possibility of pre cancerous cells. As soon as I told him he was with me 100%, encouraging me not to worry and telling me that no matter what the results where we would be together in this. Three months passed and I got tested again, this time everything was found to be okay but I need to go back in a few months for a follow up.
Whenever I am sick with the flu or cold or anything, he arrives at my house with presents. Of course he takes me medication (over the counter: teas, cough drops, etc), a get well soon card, balloons, and occasionally a teddy bear. He makes my bad day so much better as he tries to cheer me up. A few days ago I woke up in the middle of the night with a huge headache, nauseous, and with a fever. I called him at around 3 in the morning and he was on the phone with me for quite a while trying to calm me down as I cried out of how bad I felt. After I hanged up with him I felt a bit better. He is like my Robert Williams in the "Patch Adams" Movie. I love the fact that he is so thoughtful towards me. I can't thank him enough for always being there when I encountered a problem or obstacle in life, he is always there to support me and help me get through anything. He is my tan Superman; always saving me from bad situations.
DILMER & AURORA,
YOU TWO WERE THE 1ST. TWO TO INVITE ME TO A GROUP AND I AM GLAD I SAID YES. I CAN ONLY SAY YES TO ONE COUPLE.
SINCE THEN LOTS OF COUPLES HAVE INVITED ME AND I REALY HATED TOO BUT HAD TO TELL THEM NO.
MY HART STILL GO'S OUT TO YOU GUYS.
HOPE YOU WIN I STILL THINK YOU TWO DESERVE IT.
DILMER & AURORA,
MarreneYOU TWO WERE THE 1ST. TWO TO INVITE ME TO A GROUP AND I AM GLAD I SAID YES. I CAN ONLY SAY YES TO ONE COUPLE.
SINCE THEN LOTS OF COUPLES HAVE INVITED ME AND I REALY HATED TOO BUT HAD TO TELL THEM NO.
MY HART STILL GO'S OUT TO YOU GUYS.
HOPE YOU WIN I STILL THINK YOU TWO DESERVE IT.
LOVE
MARRENE
04:03 PM PST