Fighting for Us

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    Fate (or Uncle Sam) brought us together in September of '06 to Ft Sam Houston, TX. A country boy from Missouri and an Orange county girl from California, we both knew that when our orders were up we would have to go to our respective homes, 1200 miles apart, but that didn't stop us from falling in love. We soon discovered that we could spend all day in conversation, and always had more to talk about. When the time came for us to part, we just couldnt let each other go. We bought a car and drove to Missouri, packed the car as full as we could with Caleb's things, and headed along Route 66 to California. Since then we have grown closer each day. We have been planning our marriage for June 6th of 2008, and recently found out that Melissa has been called to Iraq in May. After cancelling our wedding, Caleb has struggled to join her unit so that we don't have to seperate. We don't have the time or the money to plan another wedding, so we were planning to have a Justice of the Peace marriage. We would be more than blessed if we were chosen for this dream wedding.



    Groom's Name Caleb Deeter
    Bride's Name Melissa Holifield
    Groom's Date of Birth 16 Nov 1987
    Bride's Date of Birth 22 Mar 1984
    Date of Engagement 13 Feb 2007
    Your PERFECT Date Home made dinner, walk on the beach around sunset, then maybe a guitar song and sometimes a movie. Or... a ROAD TRIP!
    Your PERFECT Engagement =
    She's PERFECT because She's always thinking of what's good for us, she has already sacrificed a lot just so that we can be together.
    He's PERFECT because He was made for me. He is the most patient and understanding man I have ever and will ever meet. Not only does he make me smile he makes me think and grow. I am forever learning from him and deepening my love for him. MySpace Layouts images

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    Your dream for the PERFECT life together The perfect life together would just start with him and I. I don't care where we live, if we are deployed, as long as we are together. Perfect for us would be a comfortable home for our family and enough time to enjoy our life together.
    Our perfect wedding colors will be We haven't decided yet.
    The perfect wedding flowers will be White Roses

    The perfect wedding music will be Frank Sinatra
    Our first dance will be to ...gether
    The guest most likely to cry: Melissa's mom...
    The guest most likely to embarrass themselves Don't want to upset anybody!
    The guest most likely to give the PERFECT toast Probably Castano. An Army buddy with a thick Colombian accent but still great with words.

What makes us the perfect couple....

    Fate (or Uncle Sam) brought us together in September of '06 to Ft Sam Houston, TX. A country boy from Missouri and an Orange county girl from California, we both knew that when our orders were up we would have to go to our respective homes, 1200 miles apart, but that didn't stop us from falling in love. We soon discovered that we could spend all day in conversation, and always had more to talk about. When the time came for us to part, we just couldnt let each other go. We bought a car and drove to Missouri, packed the car as full as we could with Caleb's things, and headed along Route 66 to California. Since then we have grown closer each day. We have been planning our marriage for June 6th of 2008, and recently found out that Melissa has been called to Iraq in May. After cancelling our wedding, Caleb has struggled to join her unit so that we don't have to seperate. We don't have the time or the money to plan another wedding, so we were planning to have a Justice of the Peace marriage. We would be more than blessed if we were chosen for this dream wedding.

    Thank you!

    Sunday, August 12, 2007, 04:59 AM PST [General]
    Posted By: Melissa and Caleb

    It's 4:30 in the morning and I just got home from work (only one and a half more hours till Caleb comes home =-)  I just wanted to write a quick... HUGE... thank you note for everyone who has wished us luck and given their encouraging words.  There are so many deserving couples in this competition that with everybody's support it helps us stay in there.  It would be amazing if they offered a thousand perfect weddings for all the contestants in this competition because there are so many remarkable love stories.  But sadly there is only one prize.  We want to wish everyone luck in the next couple weeks as they reveal the finalists.  I know we can't be the only couple holding our breaths as they call out the names =-)  I hope that all the contestants in this competition has the same love and support that we have from our family and friends (and each other... =-)   I like to look at everyone's site and know the story behind the pictures.  Thank you all so much for also coming to our page and showing your support.  We are all in this together. 

     

    So just a quick editors note.... It was actually several hours later that Caleb came home from work today because on the way to his office at the end of his shift (Caleb's an Ambulance driver and EMT), he got into a pretty scary accident.  Nobody was hurt, except a couple of minor cuts and bruises and a bump on Caleb's head. We are so thankful and blessed that we have each other and moments like these really make you stop and realize this... So make sure you take a moment (or several moments =-) to tell everyone who means anything to you how much you love them today.

     

     

    4 (1 Ratings)

    Really Listen to this song! It says it all =-)

    Saturday, August 11, 2007, 01:19 PM PST [General]
    Posted By: Melissa and Caleb

    4 (1 Ratings)

    Welcome

    Friday, August 3, 2007, 05:02 PM PST [General]
    Posted By: Melissa and Caleb

    Welcome to our group... Please feel free to look around.  Make yourself at home =-).  Read our story about how our perfect world *minus the war part and us having to seperate =-( * started.  Thanks for your support!

    4.3 (2 Ratings)

    =-)

    Friday, August 3, 2007, 01:48 PM PST [General]
    Posted By: Melissa and Caleb

     So we are excited about this competition and the idea of winning is actually kind of overwhelming... It's a dream come true. Thinking about it really takes my breath away and puts tears in my eyes. (I know I'm a dork... lol)

    But there is a whole other side of this competition. Really another very important side of it. It's really fun to document our perfect relationship on the computer and post our pictures and thoughts, but in the end we also have to prepare ourselves for marriage. Because ultimately after our perfect wedding, we have to begin our lives as husband as wife.

    Caleb and I have been preparing for our new life in many ways... We bought books (I know we sound lame =-) ), we attended hope for my marriage classes, we asked the hard questions (what happens if you become attracted to someone else, what happens if someone wants to change their religion...etc.), and our favorite one of all, we asked people who really know marriage best, our friends and family members who have been married for 25, 32, and even 50 years (wow!)

    We are so excited about our marriage, our wedding, and everything that life has in store for us. Our first year of marriage of course wont be traditional, with either one or both of us in Iraq. But will have the strength and even tighter bond of husband and wife. Love conquers all things right? So there no way were going to let some war come between us. Thank you for all your support and prayers, we need a lot of it... because even though were the perfect couple, we still need that extra push from above =-)

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    4.3 (2 Ratings)

    Trying to find a Church

    Sunday, July 29, 2007, 12:11 PM PST [General]
    Posted By: Melissa and Caleb

    Caleb and I are trying to find a Church...

    This is something that requires so much thought and prayer.  We are wanting a place that we can set down our roots in.  Somewhere where we can grow not only in faith but also maturity.  We were raised in two very different forms of Christian.  Him a Southern Baptist and I in the Friends Christian denomination.  I love that as we search for a place where we can both worship and feel comfortable we are reaching yet another level in our relationship. 

    So help us find a Church =-)  We live in the Fullerton area, but we are willing to travel... Thank you for your help in our search!  See you on Sunday... =-)

    4.3 (7 Ratings)

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    Hi Melissa and Caleb,
    Today is sort of difficult because I am sorry for those of you who have such sweet stories and didn't get in the finalists, but I am so excited because my daughter made it.
    I pray that God will use this experience and bless you with an amazing wedding soon.
    If you haven't already voted. Please consider voting for Rob Chris.
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    Cindy
    September 12, 2008
    01:59 PM PST

    Hey guys I love your story!! I really feel for you two! Although I am not in the military my fiance is. He is currently stationed in Nellis in Nevada. We have dealt with one deployment and a 3 year tour in Japan and is difficult I know. I didnt believe in the ol saying distance only makes the heart grow fonder but I sure do now!! Stay strong and I wish you two the best in the contest and just in life period! Thank you both for serving our country!

    Natalie
    September 04, 2008
    08:31 AM PST

    good luck i hope you two find the church of your dreams and that your wedding turns out exceptional.
    god bless
    brandie

    Brandie
    November 14, 2007
    02:31 AM PST

    Wud up guys, I finally made it!!! Good luck on this thing!!!... Deet Skeet hey chief, I'll see you tonight on the rig. Hope you had fun in Vegas. Yosemite was very cool...

    James
    August 09, 2007
    03:45 PM PST

    just stopping by to say good luck and we wish you the best
    lots of love
    xoxoxo
    jonathan and brittany
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    August 09, 2007
    03:04 PM PST

    Hello! Melissa and Caleb:
    I wish you both a great life together!
    This page is very nice. :)
    Good luck to the both of you! :)

    Sabre
    August 09, 2007
    10:58 AM PST


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    I really wish you guys all the luck in the world. You two really deserve this after all you two have been through!

    Julie
    August 07, 2007
    03:23 PM PST

    Thank you for the nice comments. KIIS made our wedding a reality and I am so grateful for all they did. I hope you two have a wonderful wedding as well.

    Your page looks great :)

    Good Luck!!!

    Irina
    August 07, 2007
    12:19 AM PST

    I love you two... I wish you the best of luck and a life time of happiness. And when you guys have your first kid I better be the Goddamn Godmother! I love you!

    Lauren
    August 02, 2007
    06:41 PM PST


    COOL MySpace Comments

    Hey love... I hope your having a great time in Vegas with the boys. Tell them all I said hi. I love you and miss you. Can't wait till Saturday when I can come join ya'll -Melissa

    Melissa and Caleb
    August 01, 2007
    09:14 PM PST