with Tristan working all the time and his cummute being an hour. i dont really get to spend much time with him as i would like to. i really hate that his drive is so long and even worse i worry about it. he rides a motorcycle and drives ortega hwy. to and from work. those of you that dont knwo ortega, its a scary, curvey mountain pass that goes from lake elsinore to san clemente. its scary. less than a year ago on the way to work he was on a curve and his back tire hit a dirt patch and he went down. slamming against a rock wall and completely wreaking his bike. he did hurt his back pretty bad but it could have been worse. thank god he wears a riding jacket and other stuff to protect him.

but back to what i was saying about him no being here that much. during the week i really miss him. we make what little time we have together quality time. we rent a lot of movies and i wait for him to eat dinner. sometimes life just sucks that way. we cant afford to live in orange county close to his work and i hate not having enough time with him. grrrr...  someday i hope that i can look back to these days and think about all the sacrafies we made and now it was worth it. because right now its a little fuzzy. i guess i am being selfish and just want my baby home more. but who wouldnt.

i just felt like getting that out and i actually feel a little better. not much because it still wont bring him home sooner. the long work week makes our weekends seem so much greater.

Last night while I was cooking dinner Tristan came up and was kissing me. Dominic our 21 mo old little boy seen this from across the room and he yelled out "NO" came running up and was pushing Tristan away from me. he didn't want to share his mommy with his daddy. its was just too cute. of course Tristan kept provoking him to do it again and it ended with all of us laughing at Dominic being so silly!  he really is a momma's boy!    melts my heart.

today I spent sometime checking out all the couples pages. i think everyone has done a great job with them, but i noticed people have given a lot of them thumbs down. i know everyone is here to win this but we need to be fair. i dont think a person will win because they have less thumbs down i think it is based on the couple. though that really hasnt been said yet.

i just wanted to say to please be fair to everyone and instead of going around giving them the thumbs down dont give them anythign at all.

to all my competitors your pages look great and i am sure this will be tough for the judes. good luck to you all!

Hello everyone, welcome to our page. while you are checking it out, if you feel a sudden erge of love, than I accomplished what i set out to do. show everyone how much we love eachother so much so that they can feel the love!!

I am Julie. i am 26. currently I am a stay at home mother. i spend my days helping my son to become the best man that he can be. as well as the smartest. I love to read, to myself and Dominic. He is a 20 mo old handful but I enjoy every minute we are together.I grew up in Michigan just outside Detroit. Moved to Cali when i was 21 to start a new life. The moment i met Tristan I knew that this was it. the reason for everything.

Tristan is 24. he grew up in Missourri. graduated in the top 5 of his class. though he was smart enough for scolarships to a school of his choice. he knew early on that he wanted to be a marine. not just any marine but infantry. He served in Iraq 3 times. right before the third deployment I told him we were to have a child.he has since come home safe and finished his time in the service. currently he is working at a honda dealership.he works hard and sacrifices daily for his family. i always considered him my personal hard core marine until the day I seen him hold our son. so gentle and loving. Tristan lights up my life and shows me the love that I deserve.

Our son was born a year after we started dating. we didnt have a lot of that quality time that most relationships have to help grow and mature. But we knew this was it from day one and our son just added to the excitment of our love.we have our share of disagreements but we have always been able to find common ground and work from there. Love takes commitment and flexibility. we work on our relationship daily. never let it become outdated.

i hope that everyone can feel our love. but also I truely hope that everyone finds thier true love and can experience what we do everyday!