Dear Kalyna,

I moved out here with someone I thought I was in love in with, but I am second guessing it all. I cant understand how someone can change so fast. We intended to do this together, but now it seems like we are falling farther apart. I myself am questioning my commitment to her, but to what degree is enough enough? What should I do?

Response: 

Alright well first off one of the most difficult things a couple goes through happens when there is a change. Couples usually become very comfortable with their daily routine so when there is change a couples momentum can often be thrown off. It almost seems as if the hardest thing to accomplish while going through change, like moving to a new place, is doing the growing and changing thing TOGETHER. If you love her and want to work things out then communication is the best way to go. You never know if her distance or attitude change may just be attributed to the new scenery or the new life you two just started. She may just need comfort and reassurance. Try talking to her before assuming things. Once you do that you guys can work together at making things right through supporting each other, understanding each other and adapting to everything together......