A really good friend of mine is kinda going through something that I guess you could call a "quarter life crisis".... I see it as more of an end of the year evaluation of some sort but regardless she sees herself in a rut. She recently got promoted, has a great family, and is really moving in the right direction. But sometimes, like alot of us, she questiones if shes in the place she wants to be in right now. I know alot of you may agree, that sometimes we think twice about relationships, our major in school, our group of friends, or like in this case where we see ourselves in the future.... My best advice to her was to seriously sit down and take into account everything shes gone through this year, and where she wants to be next year. If we never address what we want, we'll never be able to grasp it. Often times we focus so much on what we DONT want, that it clouds and overpowers our real goals... Makes sense? Its kinda like the law of attraction.... I read about that in this book called "The Secret" which was pretty much a common sense book BUT it really touched upon putting your dreams and goals into focus and then through postive thinking, motivation and the right moves seeing those goals come true..... So if your going through something similar, maybe you should sit down and evaluate what your doing, where you want to be, and what might be stopping you from getting there. We should never fear where our hearts want to guide us..... Its time to stop overthinking and start making moves! Get em!