Sooo I know we've all been there. You date someone for however long, and when you guys break up you either keep things cordial, stay friends, or act like the other person doesnt exist. Regardless of the position you take, some of you may find yourself running into this person in the most random places and times. Well.... how about running into the "New Girl?" Well, that was the case for a freind of mine not too long ago. She was pretty cordial with her ex even though she probably could have cared less, BUT one day she was out with a few of her friends when the "New Girl" showed up and tried to ACTUALLY spark conversation!!!!!!!! lol Now, i think it really depends on the people involved because something like this could go over very smoothly or end up super SUPER ugly, but in my friends case I think it went over pretty well. Im still a little unclear as to why the "new girl" thought it would be a good idea to talk to my friend, but regardless my friend was very nice to her and entertained her in conversation. She said she just told herself, he's my ex for a reason and I've moved on. She told me that they ended up having a great conversation and the "new girl" was really nice! The only advice I have on this one, is to the new girl....I think she shouldve thought more about why she felt the need to talk to the ex girlfriend but I also think she should be VERY VERY happy the ex was nice to her, because I've seen some nasty endings to stuff like this. On another note Kudos to my friend, cause that must have taken alot to keep cool AND on top it all be nice and accepting of her ex boyfriends new relationship! You go girl! :D And take my advice, its not worth it, so if this ever happens to you and you still care about your ex simply take a very deep breathe and realize the most important things in life is yourself and your family....