Your PERFECT Date
The date from home...we cook together, share a glass of wine, talk about anything, and decide whose turn it is to pick a movie on the tv.
Your PERFECT Engagement
A perfect engagement could not have happened until I received blessing from Sara's parents. They both said yes. Sara and I sat across the dinner table at Duke's in Malibu, talked about our life together and the excitement and joy of finally getting accepted. I asked her if I could have her permission to take care of her...slide a ring box across the table without her knowledge..and asked "Will you marry me?" She got teary-eyed, and so did I. She said, "Yes." We left and stood on PCH in the darkness of the night, embracing and enjoying the intimacy between us.
She's PERFECT because
I love how excited Sara gets for the simple things in life: a great sale, double coupons at Ralphs, finding name brand items at the 99 cent store. I love how excited she is for holidays, especially Halloween and Chrismakah. I love how the greatness of her personality makes the world around us seems so wonderful. I love her glow each morning, her laugh that can sometimes be paired with a snort (so cute!), and her generosity for other people. I love that I can come home from school or work and she can listen to me about my day and understand what I am saying. I love learning in general and I love learning more about life with her.
He's PERFECT because
Renee has the most gorgeous smile, which has brightened my day for the last two years. She is so wonderfully connected to her family and will do anything to be helpful. She supports everything little outlandish entrepreneur idea that I have. I love her spontaneous, up-to-anything attitude, which allows us to have spear of the moment two-hour walks in the neighborhood to attempting to make a lavish dinner with miscellaneous items in our cupboards like they do on Top Chef. I love that she gets a long with my friends and that they have as much fun as I do. Renee is my soulmate and my love, and I cannot wait to be with her forever…and ever…and ever.
Your dream for the PERFECT life together
To be: Two people that affect each other’s life by the love they share with one another and their decisions guided by a balancing act of compromise and sacrifice.
Our perfect wedding colors will be
Magenta, orange, and yellow
The perfect wedding flowers will be
Tulips
The perfect wedding music will be
KIISFM playlist
Our first dance will be to
"Come Away with Me"- Norah Jones
The guest most likely to cry
Connie Perez- Renee's mom (she already has since the time i told her i proposed!)
The guest most likely to embarrass themselves
Dana Kaplan- Sara's best friend (she labeled herself this before we even got to decide! LOL!)
The guest most likely to give the PERFECT toast
Johannes Peglow- Sara's dad
Another couple announced...another couple that is not us. There are four more days, which provides us with a chance of still being selected. I know that the couples that have been selected received an interview beforehand, but we are HOPING that we can still receive one. I understand that we may not be a conventional couple, but we are a couple nonetheless. We want to get married more than anyone! I do not deny that each couple deserves a beautiful wedding, but they have the chance to get married anytime and anywhere. Sara and I do not. We are finally able to get married in our home state and we would love to have a beauitful wedding to go with it.
Please kIISFM staff give us a chance to make our dreams come true.
Today is the day that our wedding bliss will be decided. I have been excited yet anxious during this month process. I so extremely wish that Sara and I receive an opportunity to be selected. Thank you so much for having us be a part of this contest. I am happy at the thought of this actually happening.
I believe when we meet people that it has a purpose, whether it was short-lived, a moment, or for a lifetime. Every person that I met before Sara did have some purpose, but nothing like what Sara brings into my life. Not even close.
Before Sara, I was a level-headed, predictable, reserved person that cared about nothing more than school. I had ended a six year relationship three months prior to meeting Sara. It was one of those relationships that was going no where and you knew that for a long time but just stayed out of comfort. Coincidently, Sara ended a similar relationship around the same time.
The week that we met (back in March of 2006), I was called by a close friend of mine that I havent seen in a while. She was going to USC at the time and there was a school function happening that Saturday; she wanted to know if I wanted to join her. Unfortunately, it so happend to be my best friend's birthday that week and we were going to Vegas, so I could not go....nor would I be jumping at a chance to join a USC gathering when I am head over in heels in love with UCLA, but that is another story...actually it does have some relevance, bear with me.
For the first time in our friendship, since we were 13, my best friend and I had a fight...the kind where you decide to leave Vegas and drive back home by yourself. As Iwas driving home, I thought to myself, maybe I should go to that party...I was not in the mood to chill by myself, so I called up my friend and got the details. I show up at Tangier's in Los Feliz, not feeling that great, but trying to pump myself up. I see my friend and she introduces me to her classmates...she tells me "wait until Peglow (my friend calls Sara by her last name) gets here...I want you to tell me what you think." Sara being fashionably late as usual shows up an hour and a half late with her roommate. I thought she was gorgeous but thought nothing more because I thought my friend liked her. The night continued...and we did not talk again untl the club closed and everyone was outside waiting to go back to a classmate's house. We exchanged no more than a few words as we waited for our friends to show up.
Since the party headed back to the guy's house, my friend and I made our way there on foot as Sara and her roommate went in their car. I had not been drinking very much that night and since I was still bummed from the fight with my best friend, I decided I was going to take off. Sara over hear me say this as my friend and I stood on the sidewalk...she seemed disappointed and said that she thought we could chat a little. I was a little confused because for one, I did not know she was curious and secondly, we had hardly talked at all. But I decided to stay...and I am glad I did. We stood in the kitchen talking about school...she had an amazing wrap sheet and the way she spoke was so intriguing. With everyone mingling, we noticed that her roommate and my friend had took a liking into one another...which I was glad so I could talk to Sara without any regard for my friend, since she seemed rather busy. =)
Sara was such a delight to talk to...here was this stunning, beautiful, intelligent woman...and she was talking to me! We exchanged numbers and before I could even get to my car she called me...we talked until 5 in the morning! It was such an exciting night....we were meant to met. We had our first date a few days later and we have been on a continuous first date since then.
She turned my world upside down. Things that did not make sense before did now. My concept of honor to UCLA left right out the window...she made everything better. I only have one type of vision since meeting her and that's tunnel vision. I felt like I was seeing life on a dimmer and she brighten everything around me. I became adventurous, spontaneous, and come out of my shell....I became a better person.
I am glad that I fought with my best friend because I could have missed out on my life as that is what Sara is...my life.
All week our anxiety was through the roof, as Friday's family engagement dinner was fast approaching. Our families were going to meet for the first time, and we were excited! I decided to go to Sara's mom's house early to help prepare for the dinner. Sara would come a little later as she had to find an accessory to make her outfit pop...if anyone knows Sara this is no surprise. I knew that I probably would not see her until the actual time of the dinner, which was 7pm. Boy, though, did she look absolutely stunning when she came in the door...she was wearing a burgundy satin spaghetti strap dress with this gorgeous black patin leather belt around her waist with shoes to match. Completely worth the wait...as she always is.
My nerves rose again as the door bell rang...I knew that my family had arrived. I answered the door, and the introductions started. My mom, sister, her husband, my nephew, and my youngest brother meet Sara's mom, her husband, aunt, sister, brother, and her grandpa and grandma. I was nervous how everyone would receive the other, but I had no reason to worry. The evening went well...as nights usually do when accompanied with good company, food and wine.
We were so nervous to see how the night would play out, as it would be a celebratory dinner for us as an engaged couple. [Wow, typing that right now seemed so surreal...We ARE an engaged couple! That makes me have such the biggest smile across my face!] We were happily accepted by our families and we even told the story of how we met, which I should tell to you guys as well...next blog. Everyone "ahh"-ed and sighed. We blushed as we looked at each other, and shared a "i am so completely in love with you" kiss.
The most impressive moment of the night was the gift we received from Sara's grandparents. We were most nervous about their reaction but we got their blessing...they gave us handcrafted silver encrusted toasting glasses which was a family heirloom. We were so extremely touched.
The night was a success, and we are so happy that we are getting married. We have the blessing from every one of our family members and that is such a great feeling. Everyone wants to see us get married...and so do I.
KIIS, we want this so DARN bad. Things are starting to come together...and we are so happy that everyone is behind us. If we win, it would be the icing on the cake. We would take the momentum we have built by announcing our engagement and take that right into our wedding day. It is just great timing!
I know that Renee loves Sara because she sits in class and doodles their names together in different colors and shapes! It appears her first priority in life is loving Sara and second is obtaining her doctoral degree. Don't get me wrong - Renee is an excellent student! I believe that putting your significant other before yourself is true love.
Renee and Sara have been making efforts to be eco-friendly, which they have inspired me to begin recycling! I am looking forward to us all taking a day trip to Solvang in a couple of weeks to feed the orphan pigs!
Renee and Sara have overcome many of the subtle prejudices female couples face from well-meaning but uninformed family and friends. Through it all their love has grown, not emerging out of rebellion, but out of the true joy they find in each other's company.
Propelled by this delight in each other, they have been able to reach to the highest heights in their respective and shared goals to help others. Renee and Sara, both busy professionals and students, manage to be activists, raising awareness and funds for the poor and for green causes.
I know Renee better than Sara and I have welled up with tears more than once as I have witnessed how Sara's love for Renee has supported Renee in her personal growth from a shy girl to an empowered professional woman. Renee has always been a powerful person, and Sara's love has been what Renee needed to feel more confident in her power. This shift in Renee is not only tangibly apparent in her school, work, and philanthropic pursuits, but you should see her! She's gorgeous: Sara's love has somehow given her permission to enjoy her beauty rather than hide it.
Renee and Sara are a perfect couple. They are devoted family members, professionals, friends, citizens, and in their love for each other. This is the kind of love I wish for everyone, the kind that continuously brings out the best in people and makes them feel joyous every day.
I have known Renee since we our wheee days in High school where we shared many thougthts, fears and great loves. But what we both had in common was a need to find a place of our own and someone who would love us for who we are and what we could become. I'm so proud to say that she has done just that! I have watched her share he life and heart with someone who is not only worthy of such love in return but has brightened, enriched and nurished Renee's life. This lovely being came in the form of Sara.
Renee and Sara have struggled and overcome whatever was placed in front of them. Like to warriors they are bound to a code, a code of love and honor. They have battled together upon the road of life. Both of these strong women deserve the chance to celebrate their love in a grand celebration! I am so honored to write on there behalf and that they be considered worthy of a beautiful wedding day!
A grand admirer of these women and dear old friend to Renee, ~Lucero Garcia
I've always thought that the kind of deep and abiding love my grandparents (married over 50 years) had was the yardstick by which all couple relationships should be measured. This is the kind of love that encourages and supports both partners to become the best they can be separately and together. Renee and Sara have such a relationship. The ability to say this is who I am and this is who I love can be difficult for any of us. But for Renee and Sara, this involved a coming out process that can be difficult to navigate. The seemingly small act of registering for this contest is such an inconceivable act of courage and growth for Renee and Sara. I feel so privileged to have had the opportunity to watch the incredible person Renee was always destined to be, emerge. It is very clear to me that the transformation of Renee into the confident, competent, loving person she has become over the last couple of years has been in large part to her ability to rely on their relationship as her strength and comfort. I look forward to many years of friendship with this extraordinary couple.
I have known Sara for over 7 years and am one of her bestest friends. We hike for an hour every morning, so believe me I know it all. All I hear about is Renee this and Renee that. I do not mind tough because I can see how passionate she is about Renee and how much she enjoys talking about her. What can I say she is a woman madly in love.I have never seen Sara so enthusiastic and happy. She has a new glow about her that I have never seen. They truly are the perfect couple. One could not write a more romantic love story. Sara and Renee renew my hope that there is still great passion and romance in the world and that soulmates do exist. Love you guys and good luck!
What can I tell you about Renee and Sara? I can tell you that they are each other's soulmate, each other's best friend and each other's dream come true!
I've know Renee since we were both in high school and let me say this for the record, I've never seen her as happy as when Sara became a part of her life. Since they've been together it's obvious that they have made a big difference in each other's life. They are very supportive and loving of each other. It's amazing to see when two people find each other and know what they have and treasure it. Renee and Sara put truth to the fact that there is a soulmate out there for everyone. They are the example of what love is.
I've known Renee for quite a long time now and I could honestly say that she has never been so in love as she is now, with Sara. The two of them are perfect for one another. Sara is the best thing that happened to Renee and I'm so glad that she is part of her life. Sara is sweet, funny and easy going. I love the fact that she is crazy like the rest of our group and we get along with her so well. Whenever I'm around both of them they're always laughing and smiling and are so into each other. They will definitely take care of one another and always make each other happy. They are one of the sweetest couple I know and I can't wait for them to be officially and legally married.
I am very happy for you two, I wish every couple could just experience a small portion of ur feelings for one another so that they may at least know what true love is like even if it's only a minute bit of it. Because within that bit they would experience an overwhelming emotion that they wouldn't be able to handle the whole sha-bang. I love to see you smile and light up when you look at sara, makes me feel comfortable knowing you have someone looking out for you and taking care of you. You are very special to me and I only want the best for you. Sara is your soulmate.
I met Renee when we both entered the doctoral program in psychology. I have and continue to see her grow both professionally and personally. When she met Sara you could see the difference in Renee's joy in life. She went through the ‘usual' love and lust phases; however, you could also see a stronger bond growing between them. Renee and Sara have a lot in common yet they also have very different life experiences. What they have done is found a way to respect each other and rather than focus on any differences they have focused on blending their diversity into each of their own personal life and sharing it with their families. Along with loving and caring for each other, Renee and Sara share the love for helping others who may not be able to help themselves. Renee has worked in a group home helping troubled adolescents and is currently working with Children's Hospital and Sara has been wonderful with fund-raising for people with Alzheimer's and working in a nursing home. Renee and Sara have so much love for each other and for others too. I hope that with all the time and effort they have been giving to others that such generosity comes back to them, as it should. These two are an amazing couple and I feel lucky to know them.
I hope Renee and Sara will be able to win this contest for one main reason...love. They are in love and happy. I have known Renee since 7th grade and now see her smile from ear to ear when she talks about Sara is a great thing to see in anyone. There are so many people in their lives that would like to see them stand up and be introduced as a married couple now that it is possible. I wish for Sara and Renee to have that perfect wedding.
