Today's Topic:  Haters

I think I've covered this topic before, but yesterday I had a conversation about "haters" with a good friend of mine and it got me thinking about it.  I try to think of myself as a non-hater.  Hate is such a strong word, such an ugly word.  There are people in my life who have done bad things to me but I still don't hate them. 

There's different types of haters... the haters I want to talk about today are the ones who hate because they don't have what you have.  Maybe they hate on you because you have the great boyfriend, or the best job, or the perfect family. . . how is any of that your fault or a reason for them to hate.  We must realize that they choose to hate because they are probably just jealous, unhappy, or they are lazy to work as hard as you did to get to where you're at.  I've sat there and listened to them complain about how they didn't get that promotion at work and how Jill did and she's only been with the company for 1 year... etc.  Maybe if they weren't wasting their time talking crap about other people, and if they were actually working hard to get to the next step... then they would have got that promotion instead of Jill.  Hmm... ever think about that?

So if you have people like this in your life, I would say it's best to just ignore them.  Don't ever surround yourself with people that will bring you down; negative people.  Surround yourself with people that love you and are on your team! Friends who will have your back and you will have theirs.  If you find that maybe you have been somewhat of a hater to someone else... step back and really think about why it is that you hate on them. . . I bet you'll realize that it has nothing to do with them but more to do with how you feel about your own life.

Have a great Thursday.

Xoxo,

Sisanie

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