Today's Topic: Flakes

Alright so over the weekend my best friend had a birthday.  It was sooo much fun I helped her decorate her place.  It was a "Sex in the City" theme and I bought all pink decorations. We even had hot pink martini cups. It was a house party, mannn when was the last time you went to one of those.  I gotta say my Champagne Fruit Punch was a hit and my homemade guacamole ran out in like 30 minutes... (not braggin at all...lol). 

So I get it we're getting older and getting a group of friends together can be tough since we all have so much going on.  I'm just a little upset when someone claims they are going to come and flake all last minute.  I'm sad to have to call some of my friends out that didn't make the 30 minute drive up to Santa Monica because they were "ohh too tired" or "something came up".  It's our best friend's birthday.... Hellllloo?  It's not like we just randomly called everyone the day of.  This was planned for a few weeks now. 

There's a difference between something truly coming up like a family emergency, a car accident, etc.. I mean I wouldn't consider that flaking.  A flake is when they are igoring your calls for about 2 hours and then send u a text saying they're not going to make it around 11pm.  A flake is when they decide to out to dinner with their boyfriend (who they see EVERY DAY) and then dinner runs late and they become too tired to drive up.  FLAKES! Don't be one.  If you don't wanna do something or go somewhere just be honest from the very beginning.  Ya feel me?

Xoxo,

Sisanie