Today's Topic: "Let's Just be Friends"

What does it really mean when a man says, "I need some time apart, let's just be friends?" I think it's just their way of breaking up with you.  Men don't like confrontation, so the easiest way to tell you that they are just not that into you anymore is to say "let's just be friends".  I actually know a guy who cheats on his girlfriends when he wants to break up so that she can break up with him.  Now that is just lame, man up and just be honest with your significant other, it's called being an adult. 

Breakups are never fun and if and when a guy tells you he just wants to be friends, listen and move on.  It's not that he thinks your ugly all of a sudden, he probably (hopefully) doesn't have another girlfriend lined up... it just means that "he's just not that into you".  Just like that book says.  Don't waste your time wanting someone that doesn't want you back.  Because while your chasing something you may never catch you could be missing out on wonderful people that are chasing you. 

xoxo,

Sisanie

Today's Topic: Take a Daycation!

Well Hiiiii, I'm at Club Splash @ Raging Waters in San Dimas.  OMG... it is sooo HOT out here so it's a perfect for gettin' WET! I'm about to jump in the wave pool real soon.  Anyway, If you are free today you should come on out or consider Raging Waters may this weekend.  It's going to be a really hot one too.  And PS... it's officially SUMMER!!  Yaaaaay! 

Ok so Shwayze should be arriving soon, I'll chat with him and Cisco Adler in few and then they are going to perfom here too! Have a wonderful weekend be safe and have some fun in the sun.

xoxo,

Sisanie

 

Today's Topic: Women Saying's:

So the other day my intern found me these sayings.  

This might help you guys ou****hought it was cute.  

As much as I'd like to say, "I never use any of these sayings and that 

I always say exactly what I mean", I can't! I'm so guilty for using many 

of these sayings . . .some of them are soooo true. Enjoy! 

1. Fine : 

This is the word women use to end an argument when they are

right and you need to shut up.

2. Five Minutes : 

If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour.

Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more

minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

3. Nothing : 

This is the calm before the storm. This means something,

and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing

usually end in fine.

4. Go Ahead : 

This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!

5. Loud Sigh : 

This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement

often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an

idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing

with you about nothing. (Refer back to #3 for the meaning of nothing.)

6. That's Okay : 

This is one of the most dangerous statements a women

can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard

before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

7. Thanks : 

A woman is thanking you, do not question, or Faint. Just say

you're welcome.

8 . Whatever : 

Is a women's way of saying F YOU! 

9. Don't worry about it, I got it : 

Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has 

told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will 

later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response 

refer to #3.

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Today's Topic: First Date Rules

So my friend is so excited because she met this great guy and is about to go on her first date with him.  She's a little nervous buy mostly just ready. . . She hasn't been out on a date in forever.  She asked me last night... "Should a man have to pay for dinner on a first date? Is this a sign of weakness on a woman's behalf?" Okay it's 2008 and rules like that are not important.  Although it would be nice if a man got the tab on the first date, I don't think it's necessary.  I also don't think it shows weakness on a woman's behalf either. 

Here's how I see it . . . sometimes the guy may not be financially stable to pay for the entire bill.  But I also don't think you should go to a super fancy restaurant either.  When I was in college I would usually always split the bill with my dates.  We were both strapped for cash and it just made it easier.  Now that we're older it makes more sense for the guy to grab the bill.  If he does, we woman should thank him and not look into it as them dominating us with their power to pay for dinner. The first date is an important one... you both want to impress one another, so maybe he grabs the meal, then you get the movie tickets or dessert later on.  Never talk about your ex, and never talk about children or marriage on the first date.  If you keep it simple and just have some fun you should be okay.

Xoxo,

Sisanie

 

Today's Topic: Impotent Men

So today I am going to share an email with you that was sent to me over the weekend.  I don't know what great advice I can give on this matter . . . I've never dealt with a situation like this, but maybe your comments can help too.

Dear Sisanie,

What do you do after you have been dating someone for two months and was waiting to have sex. But then found out that he is impotent.  Please help me, I don't know what to do, he even said he has medicine but it doesn't seem to be working. 

Sincerely,

Confused

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Dear Confused,

Well this is definitely one of the most unique emails I have ever received.  It seems like a very frustrating situation and I guess it all comes down to how much you really care about his guy.  I could just imagine that after waiting two months you'd be excited to take your relationship to the next level only to be disappointed when you find this out about your man.

Maybe in his mind, he was just hoping...just wishing, that something would work for him. Should he have told you about this?  Yes I think so, but I bet he was thinking it would be different with you because he really loves you or cares about you.

I'm sorry you have to deal with a situation like this because it's difficult. You don't want to discontinue seeing a man your in love with/or have strong feelings for because he can't have sex...yet at the same time, you know you may need that physical attention in the future, and it's something he can't provide.

You just have to sit down and realize what you really need. Is being just in love enough for you? Some people can continue relationships without physical contact, others can't. I know for me personally it would be a struggle. You just have to look at the situation and see if the love you two have for one another is something that is far more important than sex alone.

Good luck,

Sisanie