Well what an exciting weekend this was. First of all... I hope all you dad's had a great Fathers' Day. It was so great to spend some time with my daddy over the weekend. I was back in my hometown this weekend and it was so much fun. I met up with some of my best girl friends and we had a blast going out Saturday Night in Seal Beach. I gotta tell ya, it feels so good to come back to my parent's house... it just feels like home. And sleeping in my old room, well that's kinda weird...lol.
My little nephew, Noah turned 2 so all my family was over at my brothers Saturday, then Sunday my parents had a BBQ for Fathers' Day. The real highlight of my entire weekend was going to the LAKERS - GAME 5! I went with my brother-in-law who is a Celtics fan... BOOOO! It's a good thing we won 103 - 98. What a great experience to just be there and witness such a fantastic game. I loved every minute of it. Let's tie it up tomorrow Lakers!!!
Ughhhh... do guys really think that cheesy lines work on us? Well maybe that's what you're into but not me. So I was recently out with all my girls and this guy used the cheesiest line on me, I called him out right then and there. Maybe I set myself up for it but it still doesn't give him an excuse to be so corny
Okay... so there was like some Missy Eliot song on and you know how it gets all Arabian sounding... well I was acting kinda silly and started dancing with my hands over my head like I was a genie... (trust me I looked cool doing it). Anyway, he comes up and goes... are you ready...... "Can I make a wish?"
Wow!!! The best part was that I didn't hear him the first time because the music was so loud so he had to say it again, just making it sound even more lame. Awww I did give him props for the creativity of the line but sorry it didn't work on me. Moral of the story, guys don't use the cheesy pick up lines just talk normal to us. Have a great weekend.
Today's Topic: Setting Boundaries after a Break up
Well breaking up is definitely hard to do. Whether it's someone who broke up with you or you that dumped them... it's always good to set some boundaries or rules after a break up. Unless if you want this break up to be another relationship in itself by continuing to hook up, you're just going to have to break up all over again.
So there's obviously two ways to look at this, if he/she broke up with you then you totally have to respect their decision and realize that they don't want to be with you. I know that sounds super harsh, but begging for them to take you back is not the way to go. Give them space and try to do things that keep you busy. Avoid seeing them as much as possible and stay cool when you do interact with them. Don't make them feel sorry for you by acting super sad, it's best to act as if you are okay and your life is so fabulous without them.
If you were the one to break their heart then make sure you stick to it. There's nothing worse then playing with someone's emotions. Don't go back and forth with them and call them whenever you feel lonely. Take responsibility for your actions and follow through with what you decided. Chances are they might do anything to win you back so if you are messing with their mind, that's just totally not cool.
So overall, I say it's best to keep your distance. Breaking up changes a relationship whether or not you get back together it will never be the same. If you decide to stay friends then stay friends. If you decided to still hook up every now and then, I might consider that playing with fire. Just my opinion, we all know you will end up doing whatever you want in the end no matter what anyone tells you.
So today I was driving to work... and I saw this sign and it said "Be carful of your habits because they become your character". Totally random because I pass by this same corner every day and have never read or noticed it before. It got me thinking how true this statement is.
We all have some bad habits right? I think the habits we're talking about here aren't ones like biting your nails or twirling your hair. They are deeper like if you have the habit to talk issshhhh on other people then that makes you an "ish talker". If you have the habit to always look in the mirror like every 5 minutes then that may be a sign that you are insecure or just overly in love yourself. Lol. Catch my drift?
Good or bad these habits do kinda make us the people we are. So better to have good habits like always being on time thus giving you a character that is dependable. Rather then the opposite. It's just something to think about today. Have a great Tuesday!
Alright so over the weekend my best friend had a birthday. It was sooo much fun I helped her decorate her place. It was a "Sex in the City" theme and I bought all pink decorations. We even had hot pink martini cups. It was a house party, mannn when was the last time you went to one of those. I gotta say my Champagne Fruit Punch was a hit and my homemade guacamole ran out in like 30 minutes... (not braggin at all...lol).
So I get it we're getting older and getting a group of friends together can be tough since we all have so much going on. I'm just a little upset when someone claims they are going to come and flake all last minute. I'm sad to have to call some of my friends out that didn't make the 30 minute drive up to Santa Monica because they were "ohh too tired" or "something came up". It's our best friend's birthday.... Hellllloo? It's not like we just randomly called everyone the day of. This was planned for a few weeks now.
There's a difference between something truly coming up like a family emergency, a car accident, etc.. I mean I wouldn't consider that flaking. A flake is when they are igoring your calls for about 2 hours and then send u a text saying they're not going to make it around 11pm. A flake is when they decide to out to dinner with their boyfriend (who they see EVERY DAY) and then dinner runs late and they become too tired to drive up. FLAKES! Don't be one. If you don't wanna do something or go somewhere just be honest from the very beginning. Ya feel me?
